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Flirty, fun and a little bit naughty

Meet adults near you who know what they want, whether that's a cheeky chat, a discreet meet or something more.

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First, who are you?

We'll set who you're looking for to match — change it if we guess wrong.

Pick one so we know who to show you.

And who are you hoping to meet?

We've picked the usual answer. Change it if it's not yours.

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When were you born?

Members are 18 and over. We show your age, never your date of birth.

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Which county do you live in?

This is how we find people near enough to actually meet.

Choose your county so we can show you members nearby.

What are you hoping for?

We've ticked one to start you off. Change it, or add any others that fit.

Pick at least one so we know what to look for.

What are you into?

Pick up to six interests in total, or hit Next if none fit.

And what fills your days?

These are what people message you about.

Last bit. Where do we send your matches?

You'll set your password on the next screen.

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      Getting started

      How it works

      Four simple steps, at whatever pace suits you.

      Step one

      Join in a few minutes

      Fill in the short form above. It's free and only takes a few minutes.

      Step two

      Meet people near you

      Say what you're looking for and where you live, and browse members who are looking for the same.

      Step three

      Take your time

      Chat for as long as you like before you meet. There's no rush, and no pressure.

      Step four

      Get VIP Access

      Upgrade to VIP for unlimited messaging, priority support and seeing who viewed your profile.

      Naughty, but genuine

      A place for adults who are upfront about what they want, with the tools to keep it real.

      Know what you want

      No guessing games

      The Naughty Pond is for adults who say what they're after, so you can find people who want the same thing.

      Discreet by design

      Your business stays yours

      Private messaging, and you share only what you want to. Your personal details are never shown on the site.

      Dating safely

      Real people, actively checked

      We constantly check for fake accounts and remove them. Look for the ID Verified tick, report anyone who doesn't seem genuine, and never send money to someone you've met online.

      Dating advice

      Tips for having fun, safely

      Flirty, practical advice, from your first message to a discreet first meet.

      Your profile

      Writing a flirty profile that gets replies

      Personality first, and saying what you're after.

      Read the guide

      Good manners

      Naughty Pond etiquette: dos and don'ts

      Naughty doesn't mean rude.

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      Meeting up

      First meet ideas

      Fun, low-pressure places for a first meet.

      Read the guide

      Dating safely

      How to spot a fake dating profile

      Stolen photos, gift-card scams and pay-to-meet profiles.

      Read the guide

      How to Start a Conversation on a Dating Site

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      Talking About What You Want

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      Discreet Dating

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      Video Chat Before You Meet

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      Staying Safe When Meeting Someone New

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      What the Badges Mean

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