Lead with personality
Flirty works best when it sounds like you.
A playful line or two says far more than a list of what you want. Show your sense of humour, your confidence and what makes you fun to be around.
Say what you're after
Whether it's a cheeky chat, something casual or something more, being upfront saves everyone time and brings you better matches. You can keep it suggestive without being explicit.
Choose the right photos
- Use recent photos that look like you, including a clear one of your face.
- Keep your main photo tasteful. Confidence is more attractive than giving everything away at once.
- Avoid anything that shows where you live or work.
Things that put people off
- A blank profile, or one that's all demands and no personality.
- Being crude in your first few lines. Save it for when you both want it.
- Photos that look like they came from a magazine. Members are wary of fakes.
Get the tick
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