Discretion starts with your profile
Share as much or as little as you like.
- Choose a username that doesn't include your real name.
- Pick photos carefully. Avoid anything showing your home, workplace, car registration or recognisable places.
- Keep personal details back until you know and trust someone.
Keep conversations on the site
Private messaging lets you chat without sharing your number or email. Move off the site only when you're comfortable, and be wary of anyone who pushes you to do it quickly.
Respect other people's privacy too
- Never share someone's photos, messages or details outside the site.
- If you recognise a member out and about, leave it to them to say hello.
When you meet
Discreet doesn't mean secret from everyone. Always tell a trusted friend where you're going. Read staying safe when meeting someone new.